From the book "Journey into Love"

The quality of our relationship change

When we see our mother and father, we see the emotional child inside of them, and we know that thier child didnt receive the love it yearned for. We can give love to them without asking for anything in return. We accept them just the way they are and see thier spirt within.

We can recognize that our siblings were victims of negative love just like we were, and give them compassion and love.

We feel deeper respect and love for our spouse or lover, more curiosity about who they really are and we experience more understanding and acceptance, even if we are uncertain of our relationship with them. We know what intimacy is and we can integrate sexuality and love.

We care for our children in a different way, seeing them as seperate from us. We can be more authentic with them and present to them. We recognize thier talents and give them validation and direction. We see the patterns that they learned from us have compassion for them. We don't blame them or our self. We know we all did the best we could.

We are a better friend, able to give and receive in the relationship and share with each other. We work with greater satisfaction and balance and use our money well. We know that this body is the only one we have for this lifetime and learn to treasure it. We transform our relationship to sickness and even find healing.